Sunday, January 30, 2022

5th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 5th Sunday in Ordinary Time are:
  1. Isaiah 6: 1-2a, 3-8
  2. Psalms 138: 1-2, 2-3, 4-5, 7-8
  3. 1 Corinthians 15: 1-11
  4. Luke 5: 1-11
  • Called, chosen, scared to death
    • Isaiah must have felt very special to receive a call like this.  Unfortunately, he doubtless knew that historically, the prophets of God in Israel did not fare well.  No one invited them to the cool parties, kings and princes shunned them, and even the priests were not always very hospitable, depending on who the priest was serving.  Not a big career draw.
    • How are you serving God?
    • What happened to convince you that you had a calling to that ministry?
    • Do you think that you might be called from that ministry into something else later in life?
    • How might God call you into that next chapter in your service to Him?
  • Looking for God
    • When we think of miracles, we think of things that happen that are good, and which no other explanation is possible than God's divine intervention.  But God uses other people, seemingly random circumstances, even pain and tragedy as means by which He can bring us closer, if we let Him.
    • Where have you seen God in your life today?
    • How did you accept that offering from God?
    • How did that change you?
    • Were there times today when God reached out to you and you missed it, or were too busy, or just not interested?
    • What will you do differently tomorrow?
  • True humility
    • The Jesuit perspective has a keen appreciation for humility and its benefits.  Only by being humble can we approach Jesus in His humility, walk with Him, draw closer to Him.  Truly humble people do not care about who gets the credit, how many people know who was the person behind the idea, or what anyone thinks of them.  They are, in a profound way, free.
    • Where have you struggled with humility?
    • If you can imagine yourself in that situation, being perfectly humble, what would have turned out differently?
    • What frightens you about humility?
    • Should that frighten you?
        • Finding God in the unexpected
          • Our God is not a stingy God.  He seems to delight in abundance.  Abundance that is surprising.
          • How has God abundantly blessed you lately?
          • Was that abundance expected, routine?
          • How did that abundance change you?
          • How could it change you even more, in the future?
        • Preparation for Reconciliation:
        1. Where is God calling me beyond my fear?
        2. Where has God been touching my life today?  How often did I realize it?
        3. Where can I overcome my fear and be more humble, more free?
        4. How am I continuing to benefit from all that God has given/done for/done in me?
        Shalom!

        Sunday, January 23, 2022

        4th Sunday of Ordinary Time

        Our readings for the 4th Sunday in Ordinary Time are:
        1. Jeremiah 1: 4-5, 17-19
        2. Psalms 71: 1-2, 3-4, 5-6, 17, 19
        3. 1 Corinthians 12: 31 - 13:13
        4. Luke 4: 21-30
        • I feel so used
          • Jeremiah was tasked with telling God's chosen things that they did not want to hear.  Jeremiah probably never had a party thrown in his honor by the influential of his age, no ad agencies asked him to endorse their products, I doubt anyone asked him for his autograph.  Were I in his shoes, I would have felt like an abject failure.
          • How is God using you these days?
          • How has the way that God uses you changed over the years that you have served Him?
          • How do you think that He might be using you in the future?
        • School of gratitude
          • Learning to be grateful can be a hard task.  We are easily caught up in the minute by minuteness of life, and hardly ever get a chance to look back over our shoulder to see the larger patterns, the meaning of it all.  A discipline of gratitude helps us get past the muddle.
          • What are you grateful to God for today?  Come up with at least five things.  They don't have to be terribly profound, but they do need to be specific.
          • If you did that every day, how long do you think it would be before you would run out of things to be grateful for?
          • Can you see such an exercise as a form of prayer?
          • What do you think would happen if you shared your gratitude with others on a regular basis?
        • Love never fails
          • We all know what failure looks like.  Failure happens when an action, initiative, project, investment does not live up to its expected results.
          • If love never fails, what is it that love (or Love) is supposed to accomplish?
          • Where has God's love been active in your life?
          • If success is the opposite of failure, how has that love succeeded in your life?
              • The main stream
                • My father would sometimes say "getting back to the main stream of our seminar" as way of recalling a group to the point of the present dialog.  Jesus wanted to help his fellow villagers to come back to the point of his mighty deeds, to go to their intent, not just be bedazzled by them.
                • What are some things that God has done in your life lately?
                • What did you learn from them?
                • How have those experiences matured you?
                • Do you think that there is more that you could learn from those life experiences?
              • Preparation for Reconciliation:
              1. Where is God calling me into ministry today?
              2. Where have I missed some of God's gifts in my life?
              3. Where is God's love calling me today?
              4. How am I continuing to benefit from all that God has given/done for/done in me?
              Shalom!

              Sunday, January 16, 2022

              3rd Sunday in Ordinary Time

              Our readings for the 3rd Sunday in Ordinary Time are:
              1. Nehemiah 8: 2-4a, 5-6, 8-10
              2. Psalms 19: 8, 9, 10, 15
              3. 1 Corinthians 12: 12-30
              4. Luke 1: 1-4, 4: 14-21
              • Thy word is a lamp unto my feet
                • Say you meet a young woman.  She's working at a minimum wage dead-end job.  She's living with her boyfriend who roughs her up, but generally only when he's drunk.  He doesn't mean anything by it.  She only stays with him because his disability check helps to pay the rent.  She tells you that she wants to become Catholic.  You know that there is a lot of work that this young lady has ahead of her before she's going to be truly happy.
                • Where would you start?
                • Would you hook her up with your parish RCIA group and hope for the best?
                • Do you think that you would tell her that her first priority is to stop living in sin with her boyfriend?
                • Why are so many of our parishes so ill-prepared to help people like this?
              • School of wisdom
                • Wisdom seems to be in short supply of late.  Noah ben Shea, a Jewish rabbi, has a series of books that starts with Jacob the Baker.  In the story line (which is much like a rambling parable), Jacob sees himself as a simple baker whom no one will leave alone because they all want to ask him for wisdom to treat their various concerns.
                • How are you becoming wiser?
                • What do you do when confronted with a particularly troubling decision in your life?
                • If you had a better way to make decisions, decisions that would bring you closer to God, would you use it?
                • Even if the answers scared you?
              • You complete me
                • I apologize to those of you who feel that Hollywood has gone completely overboard with the superhero movies of late, I like them.  The latest, Spiderman, No Way Home has a wonderful scene where three Spidermen (each from a different universe, it's a long story) are trying to work out a game plan, but only one of them has ever had to collaborate with anyone else.  See the movie, you'll learn something about teamwork.
                • Think of a ministry, or experience in a ministry where you were part of a really functional team.
                • Was the team successful?  Did you make the world a better place to live by your work together?
                • Did you help each other mature as God's children in the course of your work together?
                • Was it fun?
                • Why do you think that team worked well?
                    • Welcome home
                      • The way that Luke frames this homecoming of Jesus' it almost sounds as though Jesus showed up at Nazareth because his day planner told him that Nazareth was the next stop on the itinerary.  But I imagine that it had to be more than that for Jesus.
                      • Have you ever tried to share your faith with family?
                      • You know that you want what's best for them, so it would seem clear that the best thing that you can share with them is that which is most precious and holy to you.
                      • Why is that so hard?
                      • How would you need to live in order to make that sort of sharing easier?
                    • Preparation for Reconciliation:
                    1. Am I prepared to show God's love to those in deep need?
                    2. Where is God teaching me wisdom?
                    3. Where is God looking to transform communities that I am a part of?
                    4. How am I sharing the best parts of my faith journey with those I live the most?
                    Welcome Home
                    Hey, Jesus ben Joseph, welcome home.  Long time no see.
                    Where have you been?  Your father Joseph, he's getting on in years.
                    I saw him the other day at the market.  Looked like he had a limp going on there.
                    When are you going to settle down, find a nice girl, do right by your parents?

                    Your mother, she worries about you brother.
                    She's proud that you mean so much to so many people,
                    Don't get me wrong.  She talks about you all the time.
                    But when she hears about the crowds, she worries.

                    Crowds, they can be so fickle.  You never know.
                    What they are going to do next.  What if they carry you off,
                    Do something wild and crazy like try to slap a crown on your head.
                    Believe me, the Romans will have something to say about that.

                    Your cousin John was a preacher, the mightiest in a long time.
                    Look where it got him.
                    I don't think the family could take another loss like that.
                    You don't want to do that to your mother.

                    Why don't you come over to Jacob's with us for some drinks.
                    There will be quite a few of us there, you can see all your old friends.
                    And the best part of all,
                    With you there, we know we'll never run out of booze.

                    Shalom!

                    Sunday, January 9, 2022

                    2nd Sunday in Ordinary Time

                    Our readings for the 2nd Sunday in Ordinary Time are:
                    1. Isaiah 62: 1-5
                    2. Psalms 96: 1-2, 2-3, 7-8, 9-10
                    3. 1 Corinthians 12: 4-11
                    4. John 2: 1-11
                    • The Lord delights in you - believe it or not
                      • If Jesus were to tell you that He was going to make a physical, visible appearance to you in human form at exactly 9:00 AM tomorrow morning, but He was only going to be able to give you one hour, how would you prepare?
                      • What would you wear?
                      • What would you want to ask Him about?
                      • What would you think would make that a successful time for you?
                      • What do you think Jesus would want from that sacred hour?
                      • Why would that be so different from any other time of prayer that you have?
                    • Shekinah glory
                      • God reveals His glory in many ways.  Jesus certainly was, is, and always will be the most compelling of those revelations, but there are many others.  One of them might be sitting next to you at the dinner table!
                      • How do you, personally, know what God is Like?  What is that knowledge based on?
                      • Who are some of the people in your life that show you some facet of what God is like?
                      • How do they reveal the glory of God through their lives?
                      • How might you become more like them in your life?
                    • Gifts given to share
                      • At the tender age of 64, I'm beginning to realize that I'm not going to live forever.  It occurs to me that a life well lived might hinge on the depth of your generosity.  Maybe the best definition of a saint is one who has given it all away by the time they depart this life.
                      • If you described yourself in terms of your gifts, what would they be?
                      • How are you giving those away?
                      • How/why is the world a better place because you are in it?
                      • What would you like for people to say of you at your funeral?
                          • Abundance-making
                            • Over and over we see God calling on His people to participate in the miracle.  The priest's sandals had to touch the waters of the Jordan before the flow of the river stopped (Joshua 3), the blind man had to go and wash in the pool of Siloam (John 9: 7) and in today's Gospel, God asked that the servants fill jars of water.  Imagine if they had thought to cut corners and only fill the jars half way!
                            • What makes a miracle?
                            • Name a miracle in your life?
                            • What role did you play in making that miracle happen?
                            • What would have happened if you had not "stepped up to the plate"?
                            • Why do you think God asked that of you?
                          • Preparation for Reconciliation:
                          1. How is God's delight in me shaping me?
                          2. Where is God trying to reveal Himself in me?
                          3. How can I be more generous?
                          4. How can I participate more in the miracles that God is making in my life?
                          Shalom!

                          Sunday, January 2, 2022

                          The Baptism of the Lord

                          Our readings for the Baptism of the Lord Sunday are:
                          1. Isaiah 40: 1-5, 9-11
                          2. Psalms 104: 1b-2, 3-4, 24-25, 27-28, 29-30
                          3. Titus 2: 11-14, 3: 4-7
                          4. Luke 3: 15-16, 21-22
                          • Revelation
                            • God's revelation comes in many forms.  Sometimes God reveals Himself in helping us transform guilt, shame, and trauma into opportunities to grow in empathy and resilience.  Some of my best managers usually had one question after some work-related disaster: "what have we learned from this?"
                            • Where do you need healing in your life?
                            • How would things be different for you once you have healed in that area?
                            • How would you be a different person in the wake of that healing?
                            • What work do you see ahead of you as you walk in that healing process?
                            • Is it worth it?
                          • Looking for the bounty
                            • If anyone asked you whether our God is stingy, you would doubtless immediately reply that God is generous in all His gifts.  Fair enough.  But what does that really mean day to day?
                            • Where has God been not just generous, but bountiful in your life lately?
                            • How was that bounty over the top, more than you could have imagined, greater than you though possible?
                            • Did you see that gift of God as a gift at the time?
                            • What can we do to be more open to such abundances of God?
                          • Temperance to find your passions
                            • You can tell a lot about a person by asking them what they are passionate about.  Their passion might be music from the romantic era, or great sculpture, the poetry of Keats, or hiking Mt. Whitney, whatever the passion that someone has, when they celebrate that passion, they feel connected, more alive to extravagant possibilities, more alive.
                            • What are your passions?
                            • How do you find time for those passions?
                            • Where do you feel that they came from?
                            • Do you think that you can become closer to God in the midst of passion?
                                • Finding your baptism
                                  • For most of us, baptism is just the beginning.  Look back over the years since your baptism.
                                  • How has your baptism changed you?
                                  • How has your baptism changed others?
                                  • Try to imagine that scene, when you were baptized.  The family there for the ceremony, the priest, the church, the weather outside.  How did your parents feel at the time?  Look up the ceremony itself and read what was said at your baptism.
                                  • If you were able to go back there as your adult self, what would you tell your parents?
                                  • In your mind, pray with those present over you as you are baptized, and give yourself a special blessing.  What would you pray?
                                • Preparation for Reconciliation:
                                1. How is God looking to bring healing into my life today?
                                2. Where is God inviting me to receive His good gifts?
                                3. How is God calling me in my passions?
                                4. How can I be more faithful to my baptism?
                                The Candle
                                lay there in its box, top shelf of the china cabinet.
                                A good deal shorter than it was the first time it had been lit.
                                His slightly shaking hand gently lifted it from its cradle,
                                And he put it into a solitary candle holder on the table.

                                "85 years ago, I was given this candle.
                                My parents accepted it on my behalf.
                                And they promised to share the light of Christ
                                With me, that I might share it with others.

                                Every year since then, they would bring it out,
                                On the anniversary of my baptism, light it again, and remember
                                Remember their promise, and remind me
                                That I was put here to share The light, be a light.

                                This candle is all that I have from them, and it's enough
                                To connect me to what matters most about my youth.
                                I light it once more today, to honor their sacrifice,
                                And to renew that promise made so many years ago.

                                I never know how many more times I will light this,
                                So I try to savor the smell of the beeswax
                                Observe the detail of the carvings in this old wax,
                                Remind myself that life is at once precious and uncertain.

                                Thank you for being here with me to touch once again,
                                My deepest roots, my strongest hopes, the well
                                That I draw life from daily.
                                To make each day full of light and life."

                                Shalom!