32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 32th Sunday in Ordinary Time are:

1. 2 Maccabees 7: 1-2, 9-14
   
2. Psalms 17: 1, 5-6, 8, 15
3. 2nd Thessalonians 2: 16-3: 5
   
4. Luke 20: 27-38

• Trust beyond knowing
  
• In Jesuit theology, the third degree of humility, the most perfect, comes as we seek closeness to God so deeply that we welcome poverty and marginalization that we may live as Christ lived.  With that mindset, trust boils down to believing that God can use anything to bring us closer, if we are willing.
• When have you trusted God for something big?
• How did that turn out?
• What makes you think that the results of that trust are completely evident?  Is it possible that your trust is still bearing fruit?
• What advice would you give you former self when you were going through that time in your life when you needed to trust God?
  

• Waking up
  
• What is the first thing that comes to mind when you wake up in the morning (besides how much it's going to hurt when your feet hit the floor)?
• What does that say about you?
• What does that say about your relationship to God?
• Do you think that you can train yourself to start the day better?
  

• Some protector God is
  
• The first reading for this week is pretty grim in some respects.  Yet these brothers who were persecuted for their faith were under God's protection.  Just what was it that God protected them from?
  

• Fearful intimacy
  
• I have a theory that over the decades of marriage, old married couples gradually go from not noticing each others foibles and annoying habits because they are infatuated with each other to learning to live with said foibles, to finding them endearing, to eventually realizing that those very foibles are almost sacramental: a gateway into the vastness of that other person.
• How has your marriage and the marriages of others taught you how to be intimate?
• How has your intimacy with others gradually changed you?
• How might you be more open to those changes?
  

• Preparation for Reconciliation
  

1. Are those things/people that I trust truly worthy of that trust?
   
2. What do I want to wake up praying tomorrow?
3. Am I letting God protect me enough?
   
4. Where is God calling me to greater intimacy?

Put Your Hand in Mine

The local memory care facility has a sign showing an old, liver-spotted hand in a young one.

At first, I thought it a wonderful image of that elder putting their trust in someone else's hands.

But what if, in addition, the agreement from that young helper went something like this:

I trust you to be honest with me,

To trust me to care, even if I cannot solve what you're going through,

To trust me to be here, day in, and day out,

Bringing what I have to offer that day, no matter how fragile or broken it might be,

Into our time together.

I trust you to be patient with me,

As I do the slow, steady work of relating to you,

Learning what motivates you,

What moves you,

What makes your heart sing.

That together, we can be healing for each other.

How many people on this earth can you say that to?

Shalom!

31st Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 31th Sunday in Ordinary Time are:

1. Wisdom 11:22 - 12:2
   
2. Psalms 145: 1-2, 8-9, 10-11,13, 14
   
3. 2nd Thessalonians 1:11 - 2:2
   
4. Luke 19: 1-10

• Finding God in the little by little
  
• Perhaps God's greatest show of mercy is patience.  Instead of hitting each of us full on with all the things that we should be doing/praying/saying, He nudges us.  Maybe we would appreciate that more if we took stock of where that nudging has gotten us.
• Can you think of a time when you felt that everything was OK, and God opened your eyes just a little to see otherwise?
• How did you respond?
• Do you think that God was able to build on that response?
• Where do you think God is taking you?
  

• Land acknowledgement
  
• The land that we occupy had people before us, and maybe yet other people before them.  I ask myself when someone makes a formal acknowledgement of that  fact: "great, my ancestors ripped this land from the hands of others.  Now what?"
• If God has mercy for all his works, how can we reflect that mercy?
• Do you know anyone in need of mercy?
• What do you think God would have you do?
  

• Worthy of the calling
  
• I remember Kelly Evans sharing once that it suddenly hit her while she was teaching that she was, that moment, doing what she had been born to do.
• Do we have to earn that sort of realization/recognition?
• What does it take to get to that place in life, courage, determination, blind luck, contemplation, ...?
• Do you think that destiny changes for us over time?
  

• Touching the untouchable
  
• Jesus seems determined to surprise, perplex, and scandalize those around Him.  Zacchaeus had something worse than leprosy, he collaborated with the Romans.
• Who are the untouchables today?
• Do they deserve that status?
• How can we convince them that they are worthy?
• What is it that they are worthy of anyway?
  

• Preparation for Reconciliation
  

1. Where has God been leading me through the years?
   
2. Where are some unexpected places that I can be God's mercy?
3. Am I fulfilling my destiny?
   
4. Who are the untouchables in my life?

Pity Jesus' Agent

Every great celebrity needs an agent to look out for them,

Make sure that they get proper treatment, proper notoriety. 

 

It's all about connections, knowing the right people,

Being seen in the right places, showing what you got.

 

This Jesus is an amazing man, full of courage, compassion, wisdom.

All He has to do is get the Word out the right way, use proper channels.

 

Otherwise, well otherwise He'll join thousands of other noble men

In total obscurity, hidden by the ashes of time and forgetfulness.

 

Jesus could make a difference in a lot more lives if He's just listen.

Listen to reason that is.

 

No one will know what He does for the poor, the lame, the leper,

The outcast, the trodden upon if He just becomes one of them.

 

Disappearing into the anonymity of  the downtrodden.

You cannot rescue someone from a plight that you share.

Can you?

Shalom!

30th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 30th Sunday in Ordinary Time are:

1. Sirach 4: 6-8, 16-18
   
2. Psalms 34: 2-3, 17-18, 19, 23
   
3. 2nd Timothy 4: 6-8, 16-18
   
4. Luke 18: 9-14

• Finding the willingness
  
• Serving God willingly can be hard.  God seems to have a knack for nudging us out of our comfort zone, challenging us to go where we might not have even though was a real destination.
• Think of a time when your faith led you to some new place in your life.
• Would you say that you were led, nudged, pushed, abducted by the experience?
• How did you come to terms with your discomfort in that transition?
• How did that transition change you?
• Why did it have to be so hard?
  

• Legacy planning
  
• Deep down, we all want to be remembered.  Maybe we ought to be a little more specific and spell out what we'd like to be remembered for.  I can think of any number of cringe-worth deeds and actions in my life that I can only hope no one will remember.
• What do you want to be remembered for?
• Who would you like to have those memories of you?
• What do you think the chances are that those will be what you are remembered for?
• Does it really matter?
  

• Appreciation
• We all want to be appreciated.  Honest appreciation tells us that we are doing the right things with our life, that we have made wise decisions, that what we have been doing matters.  But is appreciation really necessary?
• OK, so maybe you can get along without human adulation and the occasional recognition dinner held in your honor, but what of God.  Should He at least express some appreciation for your service?
• What would you think that appreciation would look like?
• If you did not feel any appreciation, what would that mean to you?
• Does appreciation make you a better person?
  

• Praying to yourself
  
• Authenticity can be hard.  We might have the most honorable of intentions, and still end up "faking it" because our heart is not in what we are doing, we are superficial about our actions or speech, we are not fully invested in what we say or do.
• You may have heard the aphorism "fake it 'til you make it" which suggests that action can lead the heart in some cases.  Can we do that in prayer?
• If it is possible for us to pray our way into the right attitude/mindset/paradigm, is there really such a thing as dishonest prayer?
• How do you know that you are honestly praying to God and not yourself?
  

• Preparation for Reconciliation
  

1. How can I be more honest in my prayer?
   
2. Where do I need rescuing?
3. How can I be more humble?
   
4. Am I praying about what really matters?

Prayer of the woebegone

Hey God, me again.
Sorry that it's been so long.
I'm past busy.  Now I'm just in survival mode.
So many demands on me, I have no idea where to start.

I'm finally past asking you for advice.
Wisdom to help me prioritize
Discernment to make right decisions
Strength to carry on ...

I could pray for all of those.  But I won't.
Today, I just have one simple request:
Give me rest from all the demands on me,
Help me find my rest in you.

Help me put my hand in yours,
Feel the soft warmth of your love in my flesh,
Breathe in your Presence
And just be with you a spell.

I don't know if that will make it all better.
But it will make me better.
More centered, less distracted,
More in touch.  Maybe even holy.

This is me putting down all the balls
That I have been juggling lately.
Maybe I'll pick them up again,
Maybe I won't.  I'll have to see. 

For now, it's more than enough
To just be in the now,
And let the rest of the moments
Before and after, go their own way. 

How are you doing today? 

 Shalom!

29th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time are:

1. Exodus 17: 8-13
   
2. Psalms 121: 1-2, 3-4, 5-6, 7-8
   
3. 2nd Timothy 3: 14- 4: 2
   
4. Luke 18: 1-8

• Finding strength in prayer
  
• When I went in for pre-admission for surgery a few months ago, I chanced to walk by the hospital chapel.  It was profoundly non-denominational, but I somehow connected with the prayers that have gone up from that little corner of that vast hospital.  It felt holy.
  
• Is prayer ever wasted?
• If you are praying for something that is really not what's best for you, not what's in God's will for you, what do you think happens with those prayers?
• What do you think happens to you in those prayers?
• Is there a truly wrong way to pray?
• How do we know that we are praying to God, and not just ourselves?
  

• Some guardian
  
• I'm from the generation that watched in horror the TV footage surrounding the assassination of Robert F. Kennedy.  In later years, as I learned bits and pieces of the protection that surrounds a sitting president, I wondered, if the president of the United States is not safe, who is?
• With God as your guardian, what are you safe from?
• How does that safety make you feel?
• Does that safety make you act more boldly, speak more truly, love more tenderly?
• Why is that?
  

• The right time
  
• "Timing is everything" as they say, and sometimes, opportunities open up in front of us to do the right thing when we least expect it.  Then the challenge is to seize the moment before it gets away from you.
• Can you think of a time/place when you feel as though you did just the right thing or had just the right thing to share with someone?
• Did you act on that?
• If you did not, what stopped you?
• If you did act on that impulse, how did it turn out?
• Either way, how did that experience change you?
  

• Weary of prayer
  
• It's easy to wonder whether prayer is having any effect.  We are a people always looking for gratification, feedback, reward for everything that we do, to the point that when we don't get those things, or don't recognize them, we wonder why we do what we do.
• On any given day, why do you pray?
• What good is your prayer life doing in your life lately?
• What would you like for your prayer life to accomplish?
• What do you think your prayer life is accomplishing in God's eyes?
  

• Preparation for Reconciliation
  

1. Can I pray even if I don't know how at the moment?
   
2. Where is God calling me to rely more on him more for protection?
3. How can I be more sensitive to God's leading?
   
4. What am I willing to do to make my prayer life more vibrant?

 Shalom!

28th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 28th Sunday in Ordinary Time are:

1. 2nd Kings 5: 14-17
   
2. Psalms 98: 1, 2-3, 3-4
   
3. 2nd Timothy 2: 8-13
   
4. Luke 17: 11-19

• Open to blessings
  
• God ministers to us in ways that sometimes surprise us, sometimes even offend us.
• Has there ever been a time in your life when God came to you in some unexpected way?
• How did you respond at first?
• What changed your attitude?
• How might you be more open (less hard hearted) the next time?
  

• Salvation from what?
  
• In our culture, we hear the word "salvation" our minds immediately go to salvation from eternal torment, eternal separation from God, maybe our mind goes to eternal separation from our family and other loved ones, but there are plenty of other things to be saved from.
• What has God saved you from lately?  Maybe its salvation from self-pity in the face of a loss, or salvation from making a bad decision, or salvation from being hurtful towards someone that you deeply love.
• How did that salvation come to you?
• How did you express your gratitude?
  

• The "little way" of St. Thérèse of Lisieux
  
• We read of martyrs who found holiness in life and died for that.  But before they gave their all in death, they had doubtless given their all many times in many places all their life long.
• What are some examples of other people that you know who have given of themselves generously over and over again?
• What are they like personally?
• Do they inspire you?
• To what?
  

• Revelation
  
• Life today is in too much of a rush.  We are never able to savor, revisit, ponder happenings in our life right after we go through them.  Maybe, if we are lucky, near the end of life, if our minds hold together long enough, we can look back, and wonder.
• What are you grateful for today?
• Why are you grateful?
• Has that gratitude changed your life in any way?
  

• Preparation for Reconciliation
  

1. Where is God blessing me right now?
   
2. What would God like to save me from today?
3. What might God be calling me to give up that I might receive more from Him?
   
4. Where has God been good to me and I am only now realizing it? 

Too Busy for Breezes

It's Sunday afternoon, the day is sunny and warm.
A light breeze sighs through the branches outside
And I hear it calling me to come, even just for a moment
And enjoy the breeze, hear its chant, join in prayer.

But I'm too busy here with other things, important things.
The breeze will have to wait until I feel as though I deserve it
When I have accomplished enough today that I feel worthy
Of wasting some time doing nothing but enjoying a light air.

After all, maybe it's just a quirk of weather, with no meaning.
Or maybe it's angels murmuring, one to another
Reminding each other of the goodness of God
In the breath of each moment, each hour, each day.

Either way, it's going to have to wait. 

 Shalom!