1st Sunday of Advent

Our readings for the first Sunday of Advent are:

1. Jeremiah 33: 14-16
   
2. Psalms 25: 4-5, 8-9, 10, 14
3. 1 Thessalonians 3: 12-4: 2
   
4. Luke 21: 25-28, 34-36
   

• Prophets among us
  
• It's easy to count on the coming of Jesus the second time to right all wrongs, root out all corruption, finally prove that God is in control.  But what about between now and then?
• Where do you see true justice going on in our world?
• How do you think that work got started?
• What do you think is needed for the people who do such things?
• Do you think that might include you?
  

• What are you waiting for?
  
• For most of us, there is nothing worse than waiting in line.  When we hear the phrase "waiting on God" we cringe.  But waiting on God is consists of trusting in God, having hopeful anticipation, and submitting to God's will.
• What are you waiting for this Advent?  What blessings are you yearning for from God?
• How are you praying for those?
• Have you shared that prayer with anyone else?
• Is God calling on you to help Him make that happen in your life?
  

• Abounding in love
  
• One aspect of mutual love is showing each other loving honesty.  Sharing what needs to be shared in a loving way, at the proper time and place, never weaponizing the truth, but sharing it in faith that God wants to benefit the other, hope that the truth will set the other free, and loving them enough to have the necessary courage to speak up.
• Have you ever felt that you really needed to share something with someone, but you were afraid of how they would take it?
• How did you decide whether or not to take that chance?
• How did it turn out?
• What does it mean to say that sharing the truth in love with someone else turns out "badly"?  How would you know that is ultimately a "bad" conclusion?
  

• Making a difference through indifference
  
• Ignatian indifference teaches us to always remember that everything in this physical universe is set here to bring us closer to God.  To the extent that it does so in our lives, that person, place, thing, memory, ... is holy.  Otherwise, it is slowing us down at the very least.  If we are still able to see God even in the absence of everything that's not God, we are truly at peace.
• What are some things in your life that disturbs your peace?
• Why is it that they affect you so?
• When looking at one thing that threatens your peace, what is the worst that can happen if that worry comes to pass?
• Do you believe that God will still be there by your side if that worst-case scenario comes about?
• So what do you really have to worry about?
  

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• Where might God be calling you to bring about some justice, even just a little?
  
• Do I have what it takes to trust in God even where my fears are greatest?
  
• Am I willing to risk rejection by telling the truth?
  
• If I believe that God is with me always, what does that really mean?
  

Incarnation Prayer

Everyday God

Help me to bask in your loving gaze.
 

Help me to hold nothing back from your sight.

Remind me that healing lies in offering my wounds, not hiding them.

 

Give me the courage to let my own failings teach me how to show mercy.

Help me to let my weaknesses teach me humility.

 

That my touch might be tender, my heart be true

When I offer my hand to one of your own.

 

And thus put new flesh on you
And a new heart in me.

That I might be your gift to others
This season, and all seasons. 

Shalom!

Christ the King Sunday

Our readings for Christ the King Sunday are:

1. Daniel 7: 13-14
   
2. Psalms 93: 1, 1-2, 5
3. Revelations 1: 5-8
   
4. John 18: 33b-37
   

• How then shall we live?
  
• Knowing that justice will prevail, all wrongs will be made right, all corruption rooted out ... eventually should profoundly affect our world view in the here and now.  Even if we are certain that we will pass on before the second coming.  The question is what should that affect be?
• If you see someone suffering an injustice, what is your reaction?
• Comfort them with the sure knowledge that this injustice will pass (maybe not before they die).
• Organize efforts to address that injustice in the here and now for that one person.
• Organize efforts to address the source of that injustice.
• Quietly look the other way and mind your own business.
• Do you wish your answer was different?
• What is holding you back?
  

• Which is it?
  
• The majesty of God is not on conspicuous display the way that it is for earthly monarchs.  Jesus gave his disciples a "sneak peek" at that majesty on the mount of Transfiguration, but that was a very private revelation.  It's enough to make you wonder why God is so shy.
• When have you seen the majesty of God in your life?
• How did that experience move you?
• How did that experience change, and continues to change you?
• Does recounting that experience move you still?
  

• Citizenship
  
• We are encouraged to remember that we are foreigners in a foreign land.  When you are away from home, you are usually there for some purpose: vacation, business trip, working for habitat for humanity, ...  But when you are home, if someone asks you "why are you here?" your only response is "this is where I live, this is where I belong."
• So, if we are here on this earth on a journey, far from home, why are you here?
• Why you and no one else filling that role?
• Has that changed for you at all through the years?
• Do you think that we ever become useless in this life?
• How do you know when it's time to hang up your spurs on one ministry, one life purpose, and take up a new one?
  

• Listening skills
  
• Ignatian spirituality teaches that God is all in all, and that He is inviting us into the ongoing work of creation, helping God in the unfolding of creation that is actively transpiring this very moment.  To step into that vocation, we must attend to God's voice in our lives.  The challenge we face is not that God speaks rarely, but that God is speaking to us in all things.
• What is an experience that taught you to listen for God in new and unexpected ways?
• How do you think that God prepared you for that experience?
• Has God spoken to you in that way since then?
• Can you think of other places, circumstances, people that you would hope that God can speak to you?
  

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• Am I letting fear cloud my obedience to God?
  
• Where is God showing His majesty today?
  
• Am I truly fulfilling God's destiny for me?
  
• Am I listening with all my heart?
  

Selective Hearing

Labrador retrievers live to eat. 

So we knew that our beloved Lab Willow was deaf -
When we would pour food into her bowl, and she didn't notice.

 

I used to long for God's prophetic word
To be as clear to me as the sound of kibble in a metal bowl.
But God, in His infinite wisdom, has not answered that prayer.

Instead, He comes to me in the form of a student asking for help.
A family member looking for a baby-sitter.
A soul friend seeking help in his prayer life.

I try to remember to thank God for them.
I try to thank them for their connection, 

Their invitation into wholeness.

And remind myself that we are all pilgrims.

Here on journey to accomplish what we were sent here for.

And that none of us can do it alone.

 Harder still to know that I have claim on no one, and nothing.
All that I encounter on this journey is not mine to hold -

But only to give away.

 

Shalom!

33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 33rd Sunday of Ordinary Time are:

1. Daniel 12: 1-3
   
2. Psalms 16: 5, 8, 9-10, 11
3. Hebrews 10: 11-14, 18
4. Mark 13: 24-32
   

• Leading others to justice
  
• Injustices are all around us.  Sometimes it might seem as though they are too numerous, too complex, too entrenched to ever make a difference.
• Where do you feel called to bring about at least a measure of justice?
• How did you become aware of that opportunity?
• Are you trying to do that alone?
• Where do you hope to be in five years with that cause.
• Where is God in all of that?
  

• You are my inheritance
  
• The joy of the Lord flows from a deep-seated sense and understanding of the simple fact that we are in God and He is in us.
• What does that mutual indwelling between you & God mean for you?
• If God knows us that well, why do we have to pray?
• If you were to try to describe God to someone, how would you go about that?
• What would you base your description of God on?
• Do you ever describe God to God?  Some call such prayer "praise".
  

• Forgiven and transformed
  
• In the Ignatian Spiritual Exercises, Ignatius invites his retreatants to spend time meditating on the love of God for them, and God's faithfulness.  He then leads them through meditations on their own sinfullness, and how they have treated God, in spite of His mercy.  This sets the stage for deep repentance and renewal.
• If you were convinced that you had sinned so badly that God could never forgive you, what difference would that make in your life?
• How has knowing that you are forgiven changed you?
• Do you ever get a chance to meditate on that forgiveness?
• Why do you think that God doesn't just start over, rather than redeeming us, redeeming you?
  

• It's not the end of the world, or is it?
  
• There is very little about the world that we live in that has any permanence.  This house that I'm sitting in right now will one day be nothing but a memory.  But how I have welcomed others into this place, whether this home was a place for healing and growth, those things will remain.  That sort of puts things into perspective next time I see some peeling paint or hear a faucet dripping.
• We say "you can't take it with you."  But that's only partially true.  What are some things in this life that you hope to be able to take with you into Eternity?
• Do you ever have to consciously decide between something in the oh so urgent here and now, versus an eternal value?
• How do you strike the right balance?
  

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• Is God trying to bring an injustice to my attention and I don't want to hear about it?
  
• Can I meditate on how close God is to me today?
  
• How can I let God's forgiveness work in me?
  
• What have I done today that is going to last?
  

Shalom!

32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 32nd Sunday of Ordinary Time are:

1. 1 Kings 17: 10-16
   
2. Psalms 146: 7, 8-9, 9-10
3. Hebrews 9: 24-28
4. Mark 12: 38-44
   

• Taking you down with me
  
• None of us goes through life entirely alone.  There are always other people who count on us, rely on us in one way or another.  It might be something as direct as family members that we support, or as indirect as people that we don't even know who look to us as an example of godly living.  When we fail in our spiritual life, we don't just fail ourselves, we fail them too.
• Have you ever made a decision that, in some way, hurt someone else that you loved?
• In spite of that, do you think that might have been in God's plan anyway?
• When you try to discern God's will in your life, who are the other people that you are likely to talk to about that?
• How has that worked out for you?
  

• Freeing the captives
• Most all of us have a pretty distinct notion of what we mean by justice, how to achieve that, how to mete it out.  We all probably feel that justice is hard to achieve in real life, that there are complications, and that improvements to the justice system we find ourselves in are needed, but effective solutions are in short supply.
• What are some injustices that have happened in your life?
• How did that make you feel about yourself, the person or group that caused that injustice, about God?
• What would have been a better process?
• What would have been a better outcome?
• Do you personally feel any sort of a call to address any of the issues that you encountered in all of that?
  

• Sanctuaries made with human hands
  
• It is easy to loose track of what a symbol points to, and concentrate on the more accessible, and tangible symbol.  Those "disordered attachments" as Ignatius terms them, can be rather insidious.
• What is a devotion, habit, pattern, person, place, ... that you value and use in your spiritual life?
• How did you get started with that?
• Can you imagine God ever offering you something even better in exchange for that?
• How would you know that was happening?
• How can you be sure that you are free enough to appreciate such an "upgrade" in your life?
  

• Finding trust
  
• One thing about trusting God that we don't often talk about is trusting our understanding of God's will in our lives.  Trusting God to be there for us when we intend to follow His will is a different matter from trusting God when we are right where He wants us, when He wants us there.
• How do you go about deciding what to invest yourself into and what to say "no" to?
• Has that process changed through the years?
• Do you think that you are getting any better at it?
• What do you think are some of the obstacles to finding God's will in our lives?
  

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• Am I open to God's revelation, no matter how it comes to me?
  
• Do I truly worship a God of justice?
  
• How might God be calling me to greater freedom in my life?
  
• Where might God be calling me to obedience that will stretch me?

Bottom of the Jar

I don't mind the thought of death.

Starvation is not the worst way to go.

After a point, the hunger pangs grind to a steady ache.

Limbs gradually go slack for want of nourishment.

Eyes grow dim from hope bleeding out.

But my son, my son.

So many years still ahead of him.

If only I could find food for him.

I would gladly offer him my all.

If only I could spare him this famine.

Today a reputed holy man asked me for bread.

If God is so good, why doesn't He feed his prophet?

Why come begging at my door?

Why ask me to risk everything?

On a whim, I call my son to me.

I show him our jug of oil, the jar of flour.

The bottom of the jar visible through the scattering of flour.

A barely hidden pit of want.

Waiting to yawn open and consume us,

As soon as we empty out our last measure of wheat.

My son looks into that jar, and knows despair.

He looks at me and asks "what difference will one day make?

If we share with the man of God,

And our God is unfaithful, we run out of food today.

If we don't share what little we have, we run out of food tomorrow."

 

I think back over all of the days of our lives together.

The love between his father and me, and then us three.

I discover that God has been kind in all of those years.

Holding my hand through the good and the bad.

Speaking to me even now, in the voice of my son.

 

And I know that all of my days,

Good and bad,

Have been in the palm of God's hand.

And I know that I cannot deny Him today or tomorrow.

Come my son.  Let's bake the holy man a loaf of bread.

 

Shalom!

31st Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 31st Sunday of Ordinary Time are:

1. Deuteronomy 6: 2-6
   
2. Psalms 18: 2-3, 3-4, 47, 51
3. Hebrews 7: 23-28
   
4. Mark 12: 28b-34
   

• Just one God?
  
• The peoples of Canaan were typical in that they believed that there were many gods, some a bigger presence than the others.  If one nation smote the other nation, then the first nation's god must be stronger.  At least for now.  A prudent person hedged their bets, and offered sacrifices to multiple gods, hoping to curry favor with at least one influential deity.
• What are some of the things in your life that demand a lot of attention from you each month, week, day?
• Do you think that they are all from God?
• How would you know?
• What about the demands on your life that you're pretty sure are not from God.
  

• God my deliverer
• God delivers us from bondage of many kinds.  Perhaps it is a bondage to pride and arrogance, or a bondage to anger and resentment, maybe a bondage to the good opinion of others, or a bondage to addictive behavior.
• Think of something that God has delivered you from.
• Did you ever thank Him for that?
• How and when did you realize that you had been delivered?
• Were you seeking that deliverance in the first place?
• What do you do to keep from falling into that bondage again?
  

• The priesthood of believers
  
• All priesthood before Jesus culminated in Him.  All priesthood flows from him.  He is the summit and the source for every exchange of gifts between God and we, His creation.  Jesus is the eternal Presence manifesting Himself to and through us through all time and in all places.  Jesus is the Communion of Saints, Jesus is the invitation into that great communion.
• Who are some of the saints of the past who have inspired you, given you a new perspective one your life and its purpose, taught you to go deeper in your faith?
• How have they spoken to you over the years?
• How would you like to be remembered?
• What message do you want your life to proclaim in the years from now to eternity?
• What are you doing to make that happen?
  

• You are not far from the Kingdom of God
  
• It's all gift, it's all from God.  God is all it is.  The rest is distraction, smoke screen.
• When is a time that you felt particularly close to the Kingdom of God?
• Why do you think that happened to you at all?
• Why do you think that happened to you at that time?
• How are you a better person because of that brush with eternity?
  

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• Where is God calling me shed distractions?
• Where might God be calling me to deeper freedom?
  
• Where do I need to be more intentional about the legacy that I'm leaving?
  
• Where might God be calling me to celebrate His love for me?

Dancing For Jesus

My wife Mary and I try to dance when we can.
Those looking on say that we make quite the couple.
I tell them that after 40+ years being together
I've learned how to tread softly.
And she's learned to keep her feet where mine are not.

The important thing for me

Is that I get to hug the light of my life.

To try to match my swaying to hers.

To enjoy the music as she does.

And do all of this without bumping into anyone else.

 

I glory in the smile that she turns to me.

My heart lifts knowing that I am lifting her.

And when I'm really lucky.

It all comes together for a few moments,
And my feet know where to go, and where to take me.

I think heaven will be a lot like that.
One eternity-long moment of complete peace

In the arms of my savior -

Finding my purpose, my meaning, my all

And not really caring much about the rest.

In the meantime, I want to practice dancing -

Embracing the moment, glorying in the now.

Knowing that I am embraced, loved, and appreciated
Both now and forever.
I just have to look into Jesus' eyes no matter where I find them.

 

Shalom!

30th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 30th Sunday of Ordinary Time are:

1. Jeremiah 31: 7-9
   
2. Psalms 126: 1-2ab, 2cd-3, 4-5, 6
   
3. Hebrews 5: 1-6
   
4. Mark 10: 46-52
   

• Does God want to heal everyone?
  
• Faith healers are quite the staple in Protestant circles.  Over time some of the big name healers have had quite the following.  But sometimes I wonder.
• Do you think that there can ever be good come of suffering?
• We never hear of Jesus turning anyone down who asked Him for a healing.  Do you think that might ever have happened?
• How have you suffered in your life?
• How has that changed you?
• Are you grateful?
  

• Finding time to rejoice
  
•  Being thankful is hard.  It takes time and attention.  Especially when you don't think that you have anything to be thankful for, or anyone to be thankful to.
• How do you express your thanks to God for His blessings?
• Does that thanksgiving meet any needs on your part?
• Do you think that thanksgiving meets any needs on God's part?
• How could you be more thankful?
  

• Dealing gently
  
• It seems to me that as we get older, and sometimes wiser, that we learn how to show mercy with humility.  Things that seemed so very black and white to us when we were young now are full of subtle nuances, and we see more than one side to conflicts.
• Who is someone in your life that you strive to show mercy to?
• What is it about them that makes mercy hard?
• Is it getting any better, any easier?
• Why do you think that is?
  

• What do you want me to do for you?
  
• Sometimes, the best thing that comes to us in prayer is not an "answer" to our prayer, but a better prayer - that is a better perspective, a clearer sight of what God is calling us into, a new priority in our lives.
• Think of something that you have prayed for that you were very passionate about.
• In the course of your prayer, did what you pray for change along the way?
• Why do you think that was?
• How did you change in the course of that prayer experience?
  

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• Where is God calling me to appreciate my trials?
• Where might God be calling me to deeper gratitude?
  
• Where do I need to show mercy today?
  
• Where might God be calling me to greater trust?

Shalom!

29th Sunday of Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 29th Sunday of Ordinary Time are:

1. Isaiah 53:10-11
   
2. Psalms 33: 4-5 18-19, 20, 22
   
3. Hebrews 4: 14-16
   
4. Mark 10: 35-45
   

• Following Jesus in His suffering
  
• Jesus seems to have done a pretty thorough job of suffering in this life.  It would seem that's not enough though.  There's still plenty of suffering going on in this old world of ours.
• Does our suffering have meaning?
• How does our suffering relate to the suffering of Jesus?
• If Jesus can help us through our suffering, how can we help others like Jesus?
  

• The kindness of God
  
• God is good all the time is a call and response that Fr. Joseph likes to use to get the gathered assembly livened up and interacting with him when he's preaching.  But sometime that goodness of God seems hard to come by.
• Why do you think that God is good to us, His people?
• Have you been good to God?
• How do you know that you've been good to God?
• Has he ever thanked you?
  

• Lord Jesus Christ Son of God, have mercy on me a sinner
  
• The Jesus prayer is meant as a gateway to meditation, a mantra if you will.  When I'm most troubled, I dwell in this prayer to get better perspective on who I am (someone in need of mercy) and who Jesus is (the font of all mercy) and things start to fall into proper perspective for me, and my vision begins to clear.
• When is a particular time when you were conscious of God's mercy in your life?
• Were you seeking mercy by name, or were you seeking something else from God?
• Do you feel as though you deserved, were entitled to that mercy?
• Why do you think that Jesus showed that mercy to you?
  

• The cup of Jesus
  
• Jesus calls us to follow Him.  He never tells us what that will mean in our case.  Were we to ask what following Him means, He would say "come and see."
• Do you think that every decision that you make needs to be a discernment?
• How do you find God's will in your life?
• Has that always worked for you?
• How can you tell?
  

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• Where is God calling me to greater trust?
• Where might God be calling me to experience His kindness in new ways?
  
• Where do I need mercy today?
  
• Where might God be calling me to give myself with greater freedom?

Thank You for Your Servants

Thank you Jesus for my Confirmation kids

Who taught me how to live in the moment -

Every moment.

 

Thank you for my students

Who taught me to care for the whole person
In order to make each person whole.

Thank you for my RCIA instructors

Who taught me how life-giving Liturgy can be -

Even the ones that don't go according to plan.

Thank you for every voice that greets me

They remind me that you speak through all of us

Even when I struggle to understand.

 

Thank you for the quiet of the evening

At the end of the day.

Reminding me that every day is precious and numbered.

 

Thank you most of all for the familiar touch of an outstretched hand
Reminding me that I am never truly alone -
And that I will find You as I share that same touch with others.

Shalom!