32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time

 Our readings for the 32^nd Sunday of Ordinary Time are:

1. Wisdom 6: 12-16
2. Psalms 63: 2, 3-4, 5-6, 7-8
3. 1 Thessalonians 4: 13-18
4. Matthew 25: 1-13

• Seeking wisdom
• Wisdom is not something that you're likely to put on your resume, but I'm sure that a healthy dose of wisdom is a great help no matter where you go.
• When you feel the need for a greater wisdom than you have at the moment, where do you go?
• How well has that worked for you over the years?
• How do you know whether an idea/impression/action is truly wise or not?
• What have been the benefits of seeking wisdom in your life?
• What has it cost you to seek wisdom? 

• Finding the courage for kindness
• It can be hard to be kind to someone, particularly if they have many needs and/or are needy.  Extending a kindness towards them will likely encourage them to seek you out again, and again, ... to help them cope.  Yet our God is kind, and He calls us to be more like him in all of His ways.
• How are some ways that you have been kind to another?
• What was the fruit of that kindness?  Were the results what you expected/hoped for?
• Would you be that kind and kind in that way again? 

• Surrounded by a cloud of witnesses
• Certainly one incentive to be mindful of our actions is that we'll eventually get to see our whole life when we stand before God at our death.  But increasingly, I am mindful that there are all of those who have gone on before me, who are "rooting for me" as I go about my life.  I don't want to disappoint them.
• Who are some of those "silent witnesses" that have gone ahead of you that you look up to?
• What do you think they might say to you today if you were able to still see them?
• How might they encourage and console you in what you're going through now?
• What would you ask them to pray for? 

• In it for the long haul
• Uncertainty about the future calls for patience and courage.  Patience to allow God's plan to unfold on His schedule not ours, no matter how urgent our needs and desires seem to be.  Courage to take the right action at the right time.  In some ways, we are always in training, and at the same time always on mission.  Each decision the culmination of all that has gone before, and the foundation on which the rest of our lives will be built.
• In what ways do you think that God has made you a better person of late?
• How has that holiness helped you with recent challenges?
• What are some of the ways that an experience/challenge/trial helped prepare you for new challenges that you didn't see coming?
• If you had more time, energy, ... what would you do to better prepare yourself for what lies ahead of you? 

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• How might I better seek wisdom in my life?
• Where do I need the courage to be kind?
• How can I bring more joy to those that I love who have gone before me?
• How might God use what I'm going through right now for my benefit in the future?

A Helping Hand

 

The only thing worse than seeing someone making bad choices for no good reason

Is having them make those bad choices in spite of the wisdom that you tried to impart.

 

Helping a loved one "see the light" calls for humility, patience, and indifference.

The sure knowledge that you are called to be a light, regardless the consequences.

 

That other person may not be able to see something in their life that's clear as day.

But they can spot pride in you from a mile away.

 

And I'm sure that patience is a fragile virtue indeed.

Given how easy it is to lose it when you need it the most.

 

But the world that we find ourselves in longs for wisdom.

Even though you will hardly ever hear someone say those words.

 

Instead, they will blame circumstances beyond their control,

Or thoughtless, selfish other people who don't know how to behave.

 

Leaving you to grind your teeth in frustration.

While you learn humility, patience, and indifference.

 

Those foolish ones who are such challenges.

Are a blessing well disguised.

 

They help us learn a wisdom that we need.

While we hope to give them wisdom that they need.

 

Lord, help me find the courage to thank you for the difficult people in my life.

Help me to embrace them unconditionally.

 

That I might be Your Presence to just one person today.

And so fulfill my destiny.

 

Shalom!

All Saints

 Our readings for All Saints Sunday are:

1. Revelations 7: 2-4, 9-14
2. Psalms 24: 1-2, 3-4ab, 5-6
3. 1 John 3: 1-3
4. Matthew 5: 1-12a

• Diversity in the Kingdom
• God wants diversity far more than we ever could.  I think it starts at home.  I remember Andy Anderson speaking of his Franciscan training once.  He said "we all believed heartily in the benefits of ecumenism.  Of course, at the time we were thinking of the Jesuits."
• When have you found it difficult to work with someone else to bring about the Kingdom?
• What was it that divided you?
• Do you think that actually meant that you shouldn't work together?
• Did you manage to do some good in spite of your differences? 

• Seeking God's face
• I once tried to explain contemplative prayer to my Confirmation students.  I told them that it's like a romance.  At first, you talk to each other for hours at a time.  Gradually, you are able to convey more and more of consequence to each other just resting in the other's presence.  Finally, if you are very lucky, the need for words gradually slips away and all that really counts is being together.  When that beloved is God, that's contemplative prayer.  Needless to say, that lessen flew like a lead balloon.
• Can you imagine God gazing on you right now, in complete acceptance of all that you are, all that you are actively becoming, all of your hurts and injuries, both visible and invisible.
• Imagine further that God gently calls your name, and you hear Him.  You set aside what you're doing, not because it's not important or unnecessary, but because your beloved is calling you in this moment.
• You walk towards God and you gaze into His eyes and you find perfect peace.
• He smiles at you and you know that you are never alone, always beloved, ever on His heart.
• How does that reality transform your view of the rest of your day? 

• Hope in purity
• It's easy to give up hope.  So many events, development, trends all seem to be running in the wrong direction with no end in sight to a downward spiral.  And yet, God calls us to hope in Him for a gradual, steady revelation of His kingdom in the here and now as preparation for the yet to be.
• When have you felt like giving up hope?
• Did you recover from that despair?
• What brought you back?
• What do you hope for in the future for you, your family, your various communities? 

• Clean of heart
• Clean of heart, or pure of heart (Revised Standard Version Catholic Edition) describes someone who is free of anything that draws them away from God, free to follow God's will in their lives, free of deceit before God and others.  That sort of freedom helps you see God in unlikely places.
• Where are some unlikely places where you found God?
• Why was it that you were, at first, not seeing God there in that circumstance?
• How did you come to see Him there?
• How has that changed you? 

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• Where can I learn to love the unlikely, even impossible?
• When was the last time that I took time to bask in God's love for me?
• How can I be a source of God's hope to others?
• What might be blocking me from finding God in others?

Ode to Perseverance

 

The chapel was small.

Walkers and wheelchairs in every direction.

Frail, thin voices calling out the decades of the Rosary.

Just as they had done for decades.

 

I used to think that such rote prayers spoke of a lack of imagination.

That those who resorted to such recitations had no prayers of their own.

Until it gradually came to me so very gently.

These prayer warriors had made this prayer their own.

 

An aunt's battle with cancer,

A child's broken bones,

Marriage teetering on the ragged edge,

A paycheck too small to cover the rent.

 

All of these and so much more,

Had been offered up in this very space,

By these very saints.

Woven into the words, the beads, the breath of Rosary after Rosary.

 

God moving through eternity sees, and feels, and walks it all.

By our side, in our heart, as near as our own heartbeats.

Holding our hands, giving His strength, weaving us together as community.

All in the words, the beads, the breath of Rosary after Rosary.

 

These aging voices were a hymn of trust

Of faith,

Of humility before God.

And I finally was able to hear God laugh, and sob, sigh, and rejoice,

 

With these His children in prayer.

 

Shalom!

30th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 30^th Sunday in Ordinary Time are:

1. Exodus 22: 20-26
2. Psalms 18: 2-3, 3-4, 47, 51
3. 1 Thessalonians 1: 5c-10
4. Matthew 22: 34-40

• Protecting the alien
• Say what you will about federal politics, these last couple of years have definitely called needed attention to our country's approach to immigration.
• Is it more just to help an immigrant to be productive than it is to give them hand outs with no expectations/requirements for them?
• Is it more just that government funding go to those who have come to this country illegally to meet their basic needs than it is for that same funding to go to US citizens?
• Is it more just to circumvent immigration laws than it is to undertake massive reform of those laws?
• Why do we, or any nation, have borders at all? 

• You are not alone
• Tragedy in our lives can be isolating.  Others find it difficult to relate to our circumstances.  Eventually you feel alone, cut off, by your challenges.
• When have you gone through experiences in your life that frightened you?
• What were you afraid of, what was the worst that could have happened?
• Do you think that God truly understood what that was like for you, how it felt, how it impacted you?
• How did God show His love for you through that time?
• Do you think that you might be able to be His Presence to someone else in similar circumstances? 

• Joy in persecution
• The beatitudes in Luke end with: Blessed are you when people hate you and when they exclude you and revile you and spurn your name as evil, on account of the Son of Man!"  It's hard to imagine finding anything to rejoice about under those circumstances.
• What are some things that have brought you true, lasting joy in your life?
• Was that joy the culmination of a lot of work, or did it come easily for you?
• What are some things that have brought you fleeting, temporary joy in life?
• Why do you think that there is a difference between the first list and the second? 

• Teachable moments
• People can be hard to love sometimes.  They do or say things that make no sense, they hurt themselves and others.  Sometimes they manage to push buttons we did not even know that we had.  Worst, others sometimes make us confront things about ourselves that still need healing, that we would rather just went away on their own.
• Who are some folks in your life who are difficult to love?
• Why do you think that God put them there in your life?
• How is that working out for God?
• Do you feel that loving those difficult people helps your relationship to God at all? 

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• What am I doing to bring more justice to those with no voice who are around me?
• How can I be a source of God's comfort and Presence to others?
• Where do I find my joy most often?
• Where can I learn to love the unlikely, even impossible?

My Elder List

 

Caring for the elderly is, among other things, a school in humility.

Day after day, this frail loved one manages to win most arguments.

Stopping you from carrying out your best intentions,

Just because you're not doing it "the right way".

 

I'm building a list of things that I hope that I will do as I get older.

Hoping against hope that I'll somehow learn from today

Lessons that I can carry with me into the shadowy tomorrows.

So that I'll be better, not bitter, hopeful, not critical.

 

I hope I won't point out how haggard others my age are looking lately.

I hope that I'll never stop looking forward to family gatherings.

I hope that I'll always find ways to love my grandchildren in ways they understand.

I hope that I'll always be willing to listen to reason, even when it hurts.

 

I hope that no matter how tasteless my food seems, that I'll always be grateful.

I hope that no matter how tired I get to feeling, I'll always be able to pray.

I hope that my aches and pains will turn me to God for support and comfort.

I hope that I don't let my fear of the changes in my life turn to anger.

 

I hope that I will never forget how lucky I am, even if I cannot remember why.

I hope that I'll always have a smile for those who cross my path, even if I lose their name.

I hope I can always be able to find ways to show love, no matter how small.

I hope that I'll always notice love shown me, no matter how small.

 

Shalom!

29th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time are:

1. Isaiah 45: 1, 4-6
2. Psalms 96: 1, 3, 4-5, 7-8, 9-10
3. 1 Thessalonians 1: 1-5b
4. Matthew 22: 15-21

• I feel so used
• None of us likes to feel like a pawn on the chessboard of life.  For one thing, the pawns tend to die early in the game.  God uses us to His own good will and purpose, yet (for the most part) we don't feel used.
• How/what do you do to put yourself at God's disposal?
• When did you start that practice?
• How has it worked for you?
• Assuming that you firmly believe that God has the highest good for all of us in His plans for us, don't you think that it would help if He'd share those plans from time to time?
• If there was one thing that you could ask of God to make it easier for you to follow Him, what might that be? 

• God of all nations
• At one time, it was thought that each nation had their own god(s) firmly rooted in their land.  When one nation triumphed over another in battle, it was, by extension, a victory for their god(s) over the other.  But our God tells us that He is God of all, a unifier, not a divider.
• Do you think that God has anything to say about international politics?
• What would a just world look like?
• How do we get there?
• Is that too much to hope for this side of eternity?
• How did we get here? 

• Enduring hope
• The first person who will live to be 120 is alive today.  Or at least that's what a financial planner has on a billboard that I saw.  Once we remove the physical barriers to long life, I wonder how we will manage the spiritual and emotional ones.  Living to be 120 without hope sounds like a pretty harsh sentence to me.
• What is it that you hope for in this life?
• What do you hope for in the next life?
• What does that first list have to do with the second list?
• Where do our deepest hopes and dreams come from?
• What are you doing about yours? 

• Hope at the crossroads
• Sometimes its hard to remember that all good things flow from God, He is the author of all authority, our ultimate destiny is in His hands.  Once you believe all that, the only challenge is what to do in the meantime while the Kingdom of God is emerging.
• What do you hope for from our leaders, both within and without the Church?
• As children of God, what do you think that we owe those leaders?
• What can we do to help them be the best leaders that they are capable of?
• What happens if Church or civic leaders don't "stay in their lane"?  Church leaders trying to tell us how to be good citizens or civic leaders venturing into maters of religion?
• How do we tell when they have strayed that way? 

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• What am I doing to help me follow God more closely?
• Where is God inviting me to bring others together in Him?
• How do I nurture my hopes?
• Where might God be calling me be a better, more authentic leader myself?

Prayer for Courage

 

Fr. Brian mentioned St. Oscar Romero in his homily a couple of weeks ago, and I felt led to do a little looking into his life and I stumbled onto this prayer of his that really seemed to fit.  I offer that this week as a way to set the proper context for what we do, who we are, and who we are striving to become.

 

Shalom!

28th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 28th Sunday in Ordinary Time are:

1. Isaiah 25: 6-10a
2. Psalms 23: 1-3a,3b-4, 5, 6
3. Philippians 4: 12-14, 19-20
4. Matthew 22: 1-14

• The riches of God's love
• God is generous, maybe not in the ways that we expect, but He is never stingy.  So it would seem that we, His servants, would learn generosity from Him as well.  Yet there is so much need all around us.
• In days gone by, the Catholic Church built orphanages, hospitals, schools, and churches.  Each of those contributed to the betterment of their respective communities.  What's happened since?
• Are we still called to that same sort of generosity?
• What can we learn from that past and apply to today?
• What might we have to do differently today in order to be generously holy and holy in our generosity? 

• The valley of the shadow
• Frightening events come to just about all of us.  Its easy to let fear blind us to what we know to be true about our God, His care for us, even forget times in the past when He has proven Himself to be faithful and merciful.
• When you are fearful of some outcome, what do you do?
• If you answered "pray", how do you pray in those circumstances?
• What do you really expect God to do to/for you?
• When you look back over your life, does that fill you with trust, or uncertainty?
• Why? 

• Holy indifference
• Our deepest desires come from God.  The world that we live in, however, manipulates us with other desires, ones that are not deep, not from God.  Our challenge is to sift our desires, and use those deep desires to help us find God's will in our lives.  Ignatius terms this openness to whatever God intends for us: "indifference".  It's not despairing of ever getting what we want, but finding the freedom to seek what God has planted deep within.
• Have you ever wanted something really strongly.  You thought that you just could not "live" without that?
• Did you pray for it?
• What happened in that prayer?
• If you eventually received that object of your desire, how did that make you feel?
• How long did that feeling last?
• What can you learn from that? 

• Desiring transformation
• I'm told that in Jesus' day, a wealthy host would provide his guests a festive outer garment when they arrived.  To refuse to wear such a garment would be seen as a rejection of the host's hospitality and generosity, and ultimately a rejection of the host themselves.  One reading of the wedding garment is that to wear it bears witness to an internal transformation on our part as we accept God's graces.
• Sometimes the truths that we sing of may be just a bit outside of our own experience to date.  Is it authentic on our part to sing those lyrics anyway?
• Is there room for us, as ministers, to grow into an attitude, belief, and actions even as we call upon our gathered assembly to do the same?
• How can we be sure that we're doing more than just mouthing the words, making the music?
• Do you think that anyone can tell?
• What can we do so that we are always growing in grace, and be true leaders? 

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• Where could I bring more justice to those that I care for, that I care about?
• Am I trusting God with my fears?
• Do I deliberately discern, or do I just react?
• Where might God be calling me be a better, more authentic leader?

The Garment

 

The wedding invitation arrived.

Recognizing the seal, I tore it open eagerly.

I was not disappointed, I had been chosen.

Chosen to celebrate a most momentous occasion.

 

I presumed it was in recognition of my steady service.

That I had been called to this celebration in appreciation.

That I was finally getting recognized for my generosity -

Of time, talent, and treasure all these years.

 

The day of, I bathed, trimmed and oiled by beard.

Donned my best robs and sandals.

Hired a liter to bear me there in discrete splendor.

And arrived right on time.

 

The doorkeeper greeted me warmly,

Handing me a garment to wear over my robes.

I gazed at it closely.

And saw that it was not nearly as fine as what I had on.

 

I asked the doorkeeper whether this was truly necessary.

After all, if the host was looking for festive, I had that in spades.

The doorman could only tell me it was required.

He did not have anything else to share.

 

I thought this a horrible idea.

I put on the proffered garment with a grumble.

Then slipped into the hall and quickly took it off.

Throwing it into a corner hoping it would not be found.

 

After all, I am special, I am important.

Hiding all of that under someone else's clothes seemed a shame.

I had earned the right to wear whatever I wished.

I had worked hard to afford my own clothing.

 

I soon found myself surrounded by people of all sorts.

Some I recognized from my other doings.

Most were strangers to me, a rangy lot overall.

Not the sort that I would normally associate with.

 

All the rest of them wore the host's garment.

And I stood out among them.

As well I should, I thought.

After all, I worked hard to get here.

 

Everyone was staring at me.

I looked up to see our host looking at me.

"I gave you the chance to become community with my other guests.

But you chose to flaunt your wealth and position instead."

 

"I had hoped that we could all learn humility.

Learn that what binds us together is more important -

More important than than what sets us apart.

That we all might celebrate together." 

"I will honor your choice to be apart from us -

Your evident desire to stand out.

Be honest with yourself, and leave us.

And we will mourn your passing."

  

Shalom!

27th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 27th Sunday in Ordinary Time are:

1. Isaiah 5: 1-5
2. Psalms 80: 9, 12, 13-14, 15-16, 19-20
3. Philippians 4: 6-9
4. Matthew 21: 33-43

• Stolen land
• At Long Beach State, high level meetings and convocations will often start with a land acknowledgement in which we voice the fact that the land that we occupy today was once inhabited by others.  I'm never sure what to do with that.  If we're not going to give the land back, why bring it up?  Folks from the far left tell us that we have no right to secure borders since we are occupying land that we have stolen from the indigenous peoples.
• How do you spend your resources of time, talent, and treasure?
• How do you decide how you spend those resources?
• If the world were totally just (not necessarily fair), how do you think those resources would be allocated and spent?
• Where would God be in such distribution? 

• Good seed
• Not knowing the first thing about wine making, I'm still pretty confident that good fruit comes from good plants.
• How has God nurtured you through your life experiences so that you're able to minister the ways that you do now?
• Do you have any ideas about what His next steps might be in your life?
• How will you know that it's time to move into something new? 

• Whatever is lovely
• There is much in our world today that is base, crude, gross that circulates in all of the media, even our schools.  Avoiding such trash is nearly impossible, particularly given the ubiquitous cell phone.
• What are those things that you do on a regular basis that bring you up, make you a better person, inspire you?
• If those things that call you higher, bring you closer to God were all that you spent your time and energy on, what would happen to you?
• Would you be able to make a living?
• Would you be able to keep all of your friends, even your family? 

• What's your produce?
• Each of us has a commission, several actually.  Some of that is completely within our control, some we can only accomplish with others.  Sometimes we need to influence our leaders so that they provide us the leadership needed for us to follow God at our best.
• What are you doing to help others produce their best produce, live their best life, draw closer to God?
• Do you feel that your leadership always helps you be that best servant?
• What do you think God might be calling you to do about that?
• Are you sure that God is still calling you to be right where you are? 

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• Where could I bring more justice to those that I care for, that I care about?
• Where might God be calling me into something new?
• How might God be calling me to greater loveliness?
• Where might God be calling me to be prophetic where I am?

Sour Grapes

 

Large organizations have a way of becoming hard to change. 

"That's way above my pay grade" often means "I've given up hope".

Sometimes the backstory is that you've tried and failed to make it better.

The pain of disappointment is too bitter to put up with any longer.

The smart money is to disengage, ride it out.

You'll retire soon enough, and this will all become a distant memory.

 

But we don't have the option to retire from service to God.

In His mercy, He finds ways for us to build His Kingdom

Right to the very end.

And the question becomes one of tools, functions, and people.

Are the tools we need going to be there, or do we build them?

Will it be clear what our role is or do we carve that out?

 

No one is an island, 

We are called to minister in community.

And that community needs constant care and attention.

Or it slowly dies in place.

Perhaps still going through the motions of past decades.

Still maintaining the appearance of meeting real needs.

 

God counts upon His people to bring His kingdom.

God counts upon His people to build His community -

The living stones built upon His cornerstone.

Every human endeavor needs organization.

But we are called to be something more.

The very Presence of God among His children.

 

Shalom!

26th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 26th Sunday in Ordinary Time are:

1. Ezekiel 18: 25-28
2. Psalms 25: 4-5, 6-7, 8-9
3. Philippians 2: 1-11
4. Matthew 21: 28-32

• If only I knew when I was going to die
• The pragmatist might look at God's mercy and conclude that if they can just make that death-bed conversion, slide into home plate as it were, then the rest of their life leading up to that final moment could be dedicated to self-gratification and indulgence.  I still remember Fr. Peter telling us that true happiness springs from holiness.
•  How would you define happiness based on your experience?
•  Is true happiness a state of mind, an emotion, a thought that you have, ...?
•  Is sadness the opposite of true happiness?
•  How do you tell when you are in a state of true happiness?

• The hope of mercy
•  Life is hard.  We need each other.  Building trust takes time.  Overcoming sin in our lives is a daily miracle that God calls us to.  Sometimes I think that each of us would benefit from the principles of Alcoholics Anonymous in some way or another.
• Are there repeated sin patterns that you fall into in your life?
• When you fall into one of those, how do you respond?  Do you despair of ever leaving that behind for good, do you beat yourself up for being weak, how do you pray your way through that?
• When you think about the ways that God has shown you His mercy through the years, how do you feel?  Does His mercy inspire you?
• Do you think this sort of meditation might be a good prayer form for you? 

• Unity in humility
• In some ways its easy to regard other faiths, other denominations the same way that we do sovereign nations: you stay within your borders, and you can handle your own affairs any way that you like as long as you let us handle things within our borders the way that we see fit.  I like to think that God has something better for us.  I just don't know how to get there.
• Where do divisions among us begin?
• What's the difference between a mere matter of taste such as whether the celebrant really needs to vest for a worship service or not, and something foundational, like the Trinity?
• Even if "they" are confused about some tenet, can we still learn anything from them?
• Can they learn anything from us?
• Where might such an exchange lead? 

• The magic of action
• Discernment is a process, and like all journeys, sometimes it has false starts, blind alleys, and U-turns.  But eventually, we figure out what to do and commit.  And even then, there's room for a change of mind and heart.
• What are some warning signs that you've made a poor, even sinful decision?
• What do you do to make yourself more sensitive to those sinful decisions?
• Do you think that good intentions make a difference in life?
• Do you think that God will always prosper the work of our hands if we follow His will in our lives?
• What does "prosper" really mean when it comes to following God? 

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• What am I doing to increase holiness in my life?
• Where might I benefit more from the mercy that God's shown me?
• How/where can I help bring about greater/deeper unity?
• Am I humble enough to pray for guidance when I need it?

Lost

 

I lose my way from time to time.

I used to long for a clear path ahead of me,

Clear directions for the journey,

Plenty of good signage along the way.

 

Then I began to see perhaps

The better part is to become sensitive.

Better at listening.

Better at knowing when I've strayed.

 

Lately, I'm trying to learn greater awareness.

Awareness of who I'm becoming.

Awareness of how better to serve where I find myself.

Awareness of new horizons opening up in front of me.

 

The trail ahead is not marked as well as I'd like.

But gradually, that means less to me.

As I learn that each step is a journey of its own.

To be savored, reflected on, celebrated.

 

Learning to trust God in the moment.

Giving Him the freedom to help me find freedom.

The freedom to follow with no guarantees.

The freedom to find fulfillment in the everyday. 

 

Shalom!

25th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 25th Sunday in Ordinary Time are:

1. Isaiah 55: 6-9
2. Psalms 145: 2-3, 8-9, 17-18
3. Philippians 1: 20c-24, 27a
4. Matthew 20: 1-16a

• God is other
• We're not allowed to make God into our own image.  His priorities, His goals, His dreams do not necessarily align with ours, and that can be a hard reality to embrace.
• Have you ever really, really, wanted something to go a particular way, and wondered how you should pray?
• How did you find the peace to hear what God wanted in that case?
• How did you find the courage to pray for what God desired for you?
• How did that turn out? 

• Our God is near
• Deists believe that God set the universe in motion like a cosmic clock maker, and then just watched it run.  We don't worship that God, but just whom do we worship?
• How close is God to you?  How would you describe that closeness?
• A popular bumper sticker used to read "Does God feel far away?  Guess who moved."  Do you feel that is always the case?
• What does God's intimacy with you really amount to?  What are the benefits of that closeness?
• Do you think that God gets anything from that intimacy? 

• Fruitful labor
• Some labor is easily quantifiable: the annual revenue from your small business, the number of customers that you contacted in a week, your billable hours.  Some is not so easy to measure: the comfort that you were able to give a friend when they needed you, the joy that you imparted to someone when God gave you just the right words for them, the hope that you conveyed along with that casserole that you shared with a friend in need.
• How can you tell whether anything that you do is truly fruitful?
• How can you tell that you're making the best use of your time here on earth?
• How can we work to be as fruitful as possible?
• How can we continue to be fruitful as our minds and bodies gradually (or maybe not so gradually) begin to fail us? 

• The measure of success
• Some folks are just more accomplished.  The wonderfully prolific composers, the academics with multiple college degrees to their names, even the fellow parishioner who seems to be everywhere at once in the parish.  Yet each of us has our own way to holiness charted out for us, and it's our job to find that path and walk it.
• What are some times/places/events that have made you feel really appreciated for your work?
• How did that appreciation help you in that ministry?
• Why do you think that appreciation was expressed in the first place?
• During times when you have not gotten any appreciation for your work, how did that make you feel?
• What can you conclude from that lack of appreciation?
• Do you think that God is at all obliged to thank us?
• Why? 

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• Where do I need more peace in my life?
• Where might God be calling me to draw closer to Him?
• Am I where I belong, or am I staying in a place just because its comfortable?
• Where might I be letting a perceived lack of appreciation fill me with anger or resentment?

My Last Days

 

I didn't ask for much from life.

Just that all my days would be characterized by:

Good health

An active lifestyle

Meaningful labor

Great hair.

 

Reality set in a few years later.

My goals became more realistic:

Strength to continue serving God just as I have been.

Courage to face the challenges new and old.

Ministry that builds the community.

An enduring sense of humor about it all.

 

Lately, I'm wondering whether all of that's in the cards for me.

Maybe, maybe I would be happy with:

Strength to serve God however He calls me in the moment.

Perseverance to seek Him with my dying breath.

Grace to be His Presence to others however I'm still able.

A source of hope to those who need it. 

 

Shalom!

24th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 24th Sunday in Ordinary Time are:

1. Sirach 27: 30-28: 7
2. Psalms 103: 1-2, 3-4, 9-10, 11-12
3. Romans 14: 7-9
4. Matthew 18: 21-35

• Transforming forgiveness
• On May 13th, 1981, Ali Agca attempted to assassinate Pope John Paul II.  The pope forgave his would be assassin, and met with him shortly after the attempt.  It would be heart-warming to be able to say that the Pope's forgiveness was transformative for Agca, but reviews of his life since the attempt are decidedly mixed.
• If forgiving another is no guarantee of making them a better person, what is the point?
• Do you think that forgiving another makes you more or less vulnerable to subsequent injury that they might inflict on you?
• Does it really matter? 

• Kind and merciful
• Mercy and justice would appear to be at odds with each other, yet they are both deeply evident in God.
• Do you think that it is possible to show mercy and justice?
• How would you define justice?
• How would you define mercy?
• Is it possible to show one without the other? 

• What matters in the end
• Day to day living can be so day to day.  Life can feel like a treadmill with no real forward progress, barely keeping your head above water.
• If someone asked you what you are living for, what would you say if you only had a minute?
• What would you say if you had a half hour?
• Given the ultimate goal of your life, how does your work fit into that picture today?
• When was the last time that you asked yourself that question? 

• The freedom of forgiveness
• When someone injures us, we suddenly feel vulnerable.  We ask how such a thing could happen to us at all.  Let alone how it could happen to us at the hands of that person.  If we're at all inclined to neurosis, we might spiral into self-doubt and wonder what we did to somehow deserve that.
• Why do you think that it is so hard to forgive?
• Does our forgiveness of another oblige them to respond in any way?
• Does our forgiveness require that they in any way deserve it?
• When you have asked for forgiveness, how has the asking changed you?
• What would have been your reaction if the other person did not forgive you? 

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• Do I have the courage to forgive?
• How can I bring about more mercy and justice in my immediate circle?
• Am I fulfilling my life calling, my destiny in God?
• How/where might God be calling me to heal with forgiveness?

I Forgive You

 

At my age, memory can be a rather fickle thing.

Hurtful things that I've said and done come back to mind.

Floating to the surface of my memory at the oddest times.

And I don't always know what to do with them.

 

I try to remember who I was back then.

I try to find some reason for that behavior.

Or some deeper lesson from that experience.

Maybe inspiration to do better in the future.

 

I know that I cannot redeem that younger me.

No amount of better behavior will make up for those actions.

But perhaps, by the grace of God

I can still bring about some healing.

 

Now I ask God to forgive me

Just in case I've never asked for that.

Where its possible I strive to make amends.

But the hardest thing is to forgive myself.

 

No excuses, no "boys will be boys"

Just a realization that I've been hurtful, spiteful

Nevermind the real or imagined motivations.

And let that younger me know that he is loved.

 

Eternity knows no bounds of time as we know it.

I like to think that I can reach back to that younger me

Claim my right as a child of the Eternal.

And lay a loving hand on his shoulder.

 

And maybe start some healing at the source.

Maybe learn from him how to show mercy in the hear and now.

To those who need it all around me.

And leave a little more of me in Jesus' loving hands.

 

Shalom!

23rd Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 23rd Sunday in Ordinary Time are:

1. Ezekiel 33: 7-9
2. Psalms 95: 1-2, 6-7, 8-9
3. Romans 13: 8-10
4. Matthew 18: 15-20

• The hazards of speaking out
• It's easy to tell ourselves that someone out there will have the courage to speak up about some corruption that has caught our attention.  But if everyone feels that way, nothing gets said, nothing gets done.
• You no doubt can think of a number of things going on around you that are wrong.  If you were told that you could make a big difference in just one of them, which of those wrongs would you seek to right?
• Where would you start in trying to solve that?
• What would be the risks?
• How do you know that you are not the one to address that wrong? 

• Trust
• There are several different dimensions of trust, each of which supports the others.  First there's trust that God's will always offers us opportunities to draw closer to Him.  Then there's trust that drawing closer to God is, ultimately, the best thing that can possibly happen to us.  Finally, there's trust that God will reveal Himself to us in a manner that we can understand and act on.
• How has God revealed Himself to you over the years?
• Would you be open to Him revealing Himself by some very different means than what He's used with you in the past?
• Do you think that God's revelation is harder than it really needs to be?
• What to do you do to actively seek His will for you?
• What do you do to make sure that you're hearing Him rightly?
• How has that worked out for you? 

• Debt of love
•  Maybe you have a heart big enough to love the world, I'm afraid that I fall short of that.
• Who are some folks in your life that you ended up being called to love that you would not have chosen?
• How did you come to realize that?
• How did your generosity change them?
• How did your generosity change you? 

• I'm here for you
• We live in a culture that celebrates rugged individualism, self-reliance, the "self-made man" (at least in conservative circles) is held up as an ideal.  And all of that has its place.  But, like everything else in life, there is such a thing as "too much of a good thing."
• Have you ever felt called to help someone else see their own error, their own sin?
• Has anyone else ever ministered to you in that way?
• Why do you think that sort of loving connection between us is so rare?
• What can/should we do to improve?
• What can we do to safeguard against creating a community of busybodies?  Even if those busybodies have the best intentions in the world? 

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• Where might God be calling me into a prophetic episode?
• What/who do I really trust in my life?
• Who might God be calling me to love in a new way?
• Where might God be calling me into a deeper partnership with Him?

Lost

 

One of the mother goats in my herd died yesterday of thirst.

She looked at me with her eyes clouded with dehydration,

Trying to nurse her newborn kid who was too weak to stand.

Meanwhile, nothing but sand and rocks in view in all directions.

 

I tried to rekindle the excitement of  our escape from Egypt.

That magical night when anything seemed possible.

I pictured in my mind when we thought we were trapped -

Trapped between the Red Sea and Pharoh's wrath.

 

I remembered the days that we spent in front of Mt. Horeb.

Listening to God and Moses communing in the distance.

Wondering what was going on, how long it would go on,

And most of all, what our future held for us.

 

None of that was any help as I watched my dying herd.

Knowing that my family was not far behind.

And wondering where I, my tribe, my nation, had gone wrong.

Was it God, or Moses, our own sin?

 

We were promised freedom from slavery.

And a land flowing with milk and honey.

Which turned out to be populated by war-like giants.

And the freedom seems to just be freedom to starve.

 

No clear way forward, no way to return.

And we cannot just stay here to die.

I wonder what purpose God had for bringing us here.

I wonder what He is telling Moses over yonder.

 

I hate to go back into the tent and face my family.

They were counting on me to lead them, 

Show them the way.

And I have nothing to say, nothing to give them.

 

I have to believe that we're still following the same God.

The one who called us out of slavery to worship Him.

The one who gave us Moses to lead us.

The one who journeys with us in the Tabernacle.

 

It's just so hard to slack your thirst with just belief. 

But at least I can tell them that we will not die alone.

That the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob still walks with us.

And that we are still His chosen. 

 

Shalom!

22nd Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 22nd Sunday in Ordinary Time are:

1. Jeremiah 20: 7-9
2. Psalms 63: 2, 3-4, 5-6, 8-9
3. Romans 12: 1-2
4. Matthew 16: 21-27

• Savoring the surprises
• Most of us don't like surprises.  We like to feel that a) we're smart enough to see what's coming, and b) we have some small measure of control in our lives.  Too bad.
• What are some of the most delightful surprises that have come along in your life?
• How did one or more of those change you?
• What did you have to go through in order to really see that as a blessing?
• If you had the ability to talk to your younger self from that time, what would you tell them?
• When was the last time that you thanked God for that surprise? 

• Gazing on God
• As Catholics, we benefit from the Presence in the Eucharist that we can gaze upon with our own eyes.  But there are many other times and places where God is Present and awaits our gaze, our intentional concentration on Him and Him alone, even if for just a few minutes.
• Have you ever felt as though you're seeing God's face in the eyes of a loved one?
• Have you ever heard His voice in the laughter of children, or the elderly?
• Has He ever spoken to you in a soft breeze or the sounds of falling water in the woods?
• Have you ever wondered at the fact that God wishes to gaze upon you far more than you desire to gaze on Him?
• When God gazes at you, what facial expression do you think that He's wearing? 

• Offering my body
• It's common for Christians to view our flesh as some sort of burden that we carry around, hoping that it will not get us into too much trouble in this life, knowing that we will shed it in death and be freed from its limitations.  But maybe there's more to it than that.
• Have you ever suffered from "heart ache", a heaviness or pain in your body that just would not go away?
• Did you try to "power through it", or were you able to take some time, sit with that feeling, and let it speak to you?
• What did you discover in that conversation?
• Where was God in that conversation?
• Where was your body in that dialogue? 

• I'm here for you
• Sometimes, there just isn't much that we can do that will "make it all better" for someone else, or even ourselves.  But we can, in one way or another, accompany another person on their journey.
• Think of someone who turned to you in a time of real need.
• What were you able to do for them?  Perhaps you were their extraordinary Eucharistic minister, you brought food to them, washed their car, ...
• Out of all that you did for them, what do you think maybe made the biggest difference in their lives at that time?
• Do you think that Jesus could ever use a companion?
• How would you help? 

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• Where might God be calling me into deeper trust?
• How is my prayer life these days?
• Am I willing to learn to listen to my body, my intuition, for the wisdom that it has for me?
• Where might God be calling me into a deeper partnership with Him?

Lost

 

Jesus seems beyond committed to this path of destruction.

Past the point of mere acceptance.

He's somehow found His way to embracing this future.

And then what?  What of us, His followers?

 

I don't think that I'm worthy to follow in His footsteps.

If I'm honest, it's more that I lack the courage.

Leaving behind every last shred of respectability.

Boldly stepping into totally unfamiliar territory.

 

The rest of the disciples don't seem very sure either.

Their furtive looks, the strained expressions that they turn on me.

Tell me that they are waiting for some sign from me -

Some leading to tell them how to respond.

 

As much for my sake as for theirs, and Jesus'

I tried to quietly reason with Him.

Remind him what such shame would bring to Him.

Not to mention all of us in His company.

 

That didn't go so well, and now -

Now I have no plan B, no alternative through this.

I considered leaving Him.

But I can no more leave than I can stay.

 

If I'm to be a leader of this dispirited tribe -

I'm going to need some leading myself.

A light ahead of me to show me the way -

Through this dark night that we're plunged into.

 

All that I can think to do is to stay with Him.

Savor the moments that we still have -

However few they may be.

And count on God to make sense of this madness.

 

Shalom!

21st Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 21st Sunday in Ordinary Time are:

1. Isaiah 22: 19-23
2. Psalms 138: 1-2, 2-3, 6, 8
3. Romans 11: 33-36
4. Matthew 16: 13-20

• You're fired!
• In the course of human history, we occasionally see God removing someone from their office to make room for a better person.  Makes you wonder how bad things have to get before He does that.
• If all authority on earth ultimately comes from God, why do you think that we sometimes have truly horrible leaders?
• What is our responsibility as God's children with regards to those leaders?
• How can we help them to be better partners with God?
• Is that possible if the leader in question is not one of God's followers in the first place? 

• Seeking the lowly
• There are many ways for someone to be lowly, disenfranchised, oppressed.  Not all of them are very obvious.
• What are some ways that you can think of that someone can be "lowly"?
• What are some examples of how you have seen God care for such folks?
• How can we tell how God wants us to partner with Him to support and comfort these lowly ones? 

• Who has been His counselor?
• It's fine for God to have infinite wisdom, but it would be nice if He'd share every once in a while.
• Do you ever pray for wisdom?
• How would you define wisdom?
• What sorts of wisdom are you looking for?
• If you got it, what would you do with that wisdom?
• Do you think that you might live better with greater wisdom? 

• Partnership
• I'm often struck by the partnership that God strives for with us, His people.  He calls upon us to do our part, and we are called upon to count on, and trust God to do His part.  Yet just what those separate responsibilities amount to can seem tough to nail down sometimes.
• What do you mean when you say "it's all in the Lord's hands now?"
• How can you tell when you're not letting God do His part?
• How can you tell when you're not doing your part in bringing about the Kingdom?
• How do you tell what your part is in the first place? 

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• Where might God be calling me into deeper, better leadership among His people?
• Who are the lowly in my life?
• Where might I need greater wisdom?  Am I willing to ask for that?
• Where might God be calling me into a deeper partnership with Him?

Carrying the Ark

 

We had broken camp just across the Jordan from Jericho.

One of the mightiest cities in all of Canaan.

Joshua told us that we needed to conquer Jericho before we could take possession of the land.

All that I could think was this was a decidedly mixed blessing -

This "gift" of the promised land.

 

Then I heard that my cohort of priests would lead the way.

Bearing the Ark of the Covenant in procession.

Straight into the River Jordan.

So that God could perform a miracle.

And let us cross the Jordan dry shod.

 

There were those among us who remembered the stories.

Of father Moses leading our ancestors across the Red Sea.

But all that I could think of was my new sandals.

And how dipping them in that muddy Jordan would do them no good.

And wondering why God needed us to help Him part the Jordan.

 

But there was little time for such wonderings.

God wanted us to cross at dawn.

And I wondered what use it was to God.

That this whole operation turned on the faith of little old me.

In the face of making a fool of myself in front of all His people.

 

But then, almost before I knew it -

We were at the river's throbbing bosom.

And I saw the waters rolling up in a wall to our right.

And new land opening up in front of us.

The way ahead perfectly clear where there had been none.

 

I come here every few years with my family.

And tell them the old stories again.

Hoping that they will have the courage

To let God take their hand and lead them 

Into the impossible.

 

Shalom!

20th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 20th Sunday in Ordinary Time are:

1. Isaiah 56: 1, 6-7
2. Psalms 67: 2-3, 5, 6, 8
3. Romans 11: 13-15, 29-32
4. Matthew 15: 21-28

• A house of prayer for all peoples
• Some politicians claim that theirs is a "big tent" organization.  Which means that they are inclusive, welcoming, and non-judgemental.  Are we a "big tent" organization?
• If someone came to you and told you that they thought about becoming Catholic, but felt that there were just "too many rules" for them to abide.  What would you say?
• If someone asked you what were the core beliefs that set us apart from other religions, what would you say?
• If someone came to you and said that they really appreciated the good work that we're doing here in the parish, and they want to make a sizeable donation to support that work, would you have any questions for them? 

•  Let all the nations praise you
• Across the globe, we come from very different cultures.  Yet God desires to be Lord in all of our lives.
• Why do you think that Christianity and Catholicism do not enjoy a wider following in the world today?
• How much of that is on us?
• What can we do within our families, communities, and parishes to be more attractive to others?
• How do we do that without compromising any of the essentials?
• How do we know what those essentials are? 

• Mercy me
• Our God is a God of mercy, and we as His children should be revealing His nature in our lives.
• How would you define mercy?
• What do you think that it costs God to be merciful to us?
• When have you ever been merciful?
• What is the difference between being merciful, versus just letting someone get away with something? 

• Prayer changes things
• Prayer takes a lot of faith.  Ideally, prayer should be a conversation.  Maybe not so much that we seek to wear God down into doing what we want, but that we learn to draw closer to God in the process.
• Have you ever prayed for something, not knowing what the outcome might be?
• How did that turn out for you?
• Are you grateful for the answer that you received?
• What did you learn in that encounter with God?
• Do you think that God has a sense of humor? 

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• Where might God be looking to expand my horizons as far as accepting others?
•  How can I be more welcoming?
• What within me prevents me from showing greater mercy?
• Do I really trust God in my life?

Courage to Care

 

You never know where caring for another will take you.

Without warning, the trust you earn by caring opens them up.

They show their heart to you, and suddenly, you know.

 

You know their hurts scarce shared with another.

You know their fears that they have tried to tamp down.

You know that they don't know what's coming next.

 

And neither do you.

 

The decision then becomes whether to step into that need.

Or turn and run, by whatever means possible.

Or worse, pretend interest without meaning it.

 

On the razor's edge of that decision rides the simple question:

Are you a child of mercy, a disciple of the God of Mercy?

Or maybe just a hollow person who looks like a disciple.

 

It hurts to hear that I have no depth to my devotion.

 

But better to confront my shallowness face to face.

And address my fears, prejudices, selfishness

And draw closer to Jesus along the way

 

Than it would be to find comfort in lies. 

Lord, give me the courage to be honest with you -

And myself.

 

There is the beginning of true discipleship. 

 

Shalom!

19th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our readings for the 19th Sunday in Ordinary Time are:

1. 1 Kings 19: 9a, 11-13a
2. Psalms 85: 9, 10, 11-12, 13-14
3. Romans 9: 1-5
4. Matthew 14: 22-33

• Getting my attention
• I believe that it's common for us to wish that God would just send an e-mail, or perhaps have an oracle of some sort knock at our door when He has something to say, but that doesn't appear to be the way of things.
• Thinking back over the various times and places when God needed to communicate something to you, how did you decide that this was God, and not something/someone else?
• In general, how good do you think you are at listening to what God has to say to you?
• When you try to discern His will, how do you tell if you got it right?
• What are some things that have made it hard to hear His voice in your life? 

•  God's kindness
• We speak of God's great mercy and kindness.  We speak of the contrast between what God could do, versus what He does do.
• How has God been kind to you lately?
• What makes you see that as a kindness?
• If a friend or relative treated you that way, would you see it as kindness?
• How do you strive to reflect that same kindness to others? 

• God's grace
• We sing that God's "grace is enough", but what does that really mean?
• How would you define "grace" in this context?
• When have you seen God's grace active in your life?
• How did you receive/appropriate that grace?
• How did that grace change you? 

• Overboard for Jesus
• I love Peter.  He never does anything by half measures.  I want to have his boldness.  I'd even be willing to accept his lapses if I could have his courage.  I think that he felt exhausted, abandoned, and at his wit's end when he saw Jesus, and Peter needed to be sure it was really Him, because Peter just could not take one more stress that day.
• When is a time that you felt that you had reached the "end of your rope" and just had nothing left, no gas in your tank?
• How did you pray in that circumstance?
• How did God answer you?
• How did you know that it was Him who provided that answer?
• Do you think that you turn to God in such circumstances earlier/more easily now?

• Preparation for Reconciliation
• Where might God be trying to still some of the noise in my life today?
•  How is God showing me kindness today?
• How is God showing me His grace?
• Do I really trust God in my life?

Cutting Through the Noise

 

The rest of the disciples were panicking behind me.

Tossing anything from the boat to give us just a little more buoyancy.

The ragged sound of buckets of water being flung madly overboard.

The shrieking wind and crashing waves adding their voices.

All made for a deafening chorus.

 

But somehow, when I saw Jesus,

All of that urgency was thrust from center stage in my view.

And He came into sharp focus in the midst of  the chaos.

Showing us that we were not abandoned, not alone.

The other disciples were too busy to notice.  I needed to demonstrate His Presence.

 

That, and I needed to be near Him again.

Even if for just one last time.

I have been borne on the bosom of these waters for my whole life.

I always knew that this sort of fury was possible.

And I thought that I had what it took to ride it out, come safe to shore.

 

But now, in a flash, I realized how wrong I was.

I saw that Jesus beside me was what I needed most.

Not just strength, flash reflexes, even the support of the other disciples.

What I needed was His hand in mine to show me how to use all that.

What I needed was His guidance to show me the way.

 

He was coming toward us, that much I could see.

But suddenly, that wasn't soon enough.

Not personal enough.

I needed Him now, this very instant.

And I, for a moment, was ready to do whatever it took to reach Him.

 

Maybe if I had ran across the water a little faster 

So that I would get to Him before I started to sink.

Maybe if I had done a better job keeping my eyes on Him.

Maybe if I didn't listen to myself screaming that leaving the boat was madness.

All that I know was that I felt so very free in that moment.

 

I'll never look at the sea the same way again.

Sometimes, I stand in the shallows and let the wavelets wash over my feet.

And remember that moment when I could follow Jesus out onto the water.

And I tell myself that today, today I can follow Him yet again.

Into new horizons and wider vistas.  If only I keep my eyes on Him.

 

Shalom!